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Hey mom hope you can hear me. As I know you will always, it just hurts that I didn’t get to show you the man you always wanted me to become and I wouldn’t get to hear that sweet voice of yours any more, but it will forever remain in my heart. Growing up you always talked to me and my brother about you always wanting a daughter, but instead you got two handsome young men, my brother Jahkai and I who you were so grateful for, and devoted all her time and energy into. One thing for certain is that I know you loved me and my brother because you would literally give us your last of anything just to make me and my brother happy. Unforgettable Memory.

Love you dearly – your son Jerome

Hey mom, it just hurts that I will not get to hear your voice any more, but it will forever remain in my heart. I can only imagine the look on your face for the first time seeing us come out of your womb. I’m going to cherish all of your memories. The days taking us to school greased up in baby oil, looking like two greased monkeys. You always used to say look at my two handsome black boys with all smiles, your beautiful soulful of love and joy. But one thing for sure you raised us to smile through the pain and stay firm and strong. Words from my mom who played both roles in me and my brother’s life. Just happy to have spent 21 years of my life knowing you and loving you as my mom, my protector and my guider. It’s so hard knowing that you just left without even saying goodbye. I still had stuff to say, questions to ask, but I know it’s a reason for everything that God has planned. So I’m going to take your advice and keep moving forward to make you smile because you are now my shining star and my guiding angel. I’m going to do right by what you grew me up with and taught me, and also teach my son to grow strong and firm like you taught me to do. Your (Grandson Kaiser) that will also forever be with you. But all said and done I hope we meet again in a much better place, LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY FOREVER AND ALWAYS.

Your son Jahkai. Love you momma

Sleep in Peace

Carol-Ann my heart dropped when I got the call that my daughter had passed. I can no longer call you or you me. We had our ups and downs at times, because as a father I always wanted the best for you. You was my first born, a day I will never forget.

Love always Daddy my daughter

My Dearest Granddaughter

My dearest granddaughter, I am going to miss you so much, I remember you stood by me one day and watched and assisted me to cook and from that day you became a great cook and baker. In your own right, it came to a point at times I was asking you questions. I was so proud of you when I attended your graduations here and abroad. You was the one that insisted I get my ears pierced and treated me to that. You always made sure along with Carlena that I was always dressed nice for whatever occasion I had when you lived with me.

But we do believe as you did that "to be absent from the body is to be present in the lord". Carol-Ann you are in the loving arms of the almighty S.I.P always in our hearts until we meet again.

Love Grandma Genesta

My Sister

When I think of Carol-Ann it means:-

C - caring

A - adoring

R - relaxing

O - optimistic

L - loving

A - awesome

N - nice

N - natural, sister I'm going to miss you but God knows best.

Love you always your sister Arianne O’Mara

My Dear Niece

Carol-Ann and I came up as sisters, since we were so close in age she didn't call me Aunt Carlena .... that is unless it was something she wanted with a SMILE. I loved the times we traveled together just the two of us, one trip we went to New York our cousin Tamiko told us about a hotel and we decided to book it. So... we got in the room and she said why are the curtains drawn? To our surprise she opened the curtains and there was a brick wall we laughed and laughed. I said don't worry we will be more out then in, because our trips were all about shopping.

Carol-Ann, you were a great cook. I remember whenever I would bother you to cook or bake..."Carol-Ann can you make this for me?" You would say just give me the heads up when you need it for. The last thing you did for me was Easter Sunday one of my favs chocolate brownies and they weren't the box ones either. I will always cherish your kindness and the many flavours of your great culinary skills.

Love Aunt Carlena

My Sister

My sister, my protector, I will never forgot all you have done for me. When I had my son you was like a second mother to him. So much you gave him a big 5th birthday party and stopped at nothing to make sure his day was celebrated. When I got sick you made sure all the ducks was in order and for that I am so grateful. Sis I love you…so happy God gave me a sister like you.

Love you sis…your brother Ervin

My Dear Sister

I wouldn't have dreamed that Tuesday would be the Last time I heard your beautiful voice. "Gladwina, Let me call you back." I know you fought really hard I could hear it in your last voice note to me. You had so many plans, and we had plans to leave a legacy for our family. Well sis, God's plan is far greater than ours, and he had a magnificent plan for you!

I give God thanks for these past weeks where we've spent so much quality time together, and I was looking forward to assisting any way I could to plan the baby shower for your first grand, and you helping me plan my first birthday party. You were ecstatic and looked forward to meeting your first Grand in September and I shared your excitement. I will surely miss your beautiful gentle Smile, and your God given gifted hands. You had dreams that soared and I know you were on the verge of ensuring they materialized, and I was here to support you.

Your with mommy now, please send my love to her and I know you both are watching in glory looking over our family and your boys. We love you so dearly. I will cherish our talks and our last moments together. It's painful to know that I will not see you in the physical realm, but your glorious spirit will continue to live within me and all the lives you impacted which were so so many!

I will miss getting on your nerves and us reminiscing about mommy, and how we both are so much like her with our OCD immaculate ways. You were an excellent homemaker that was the glue holding the pieces together for so many. I cherish your glorious Spirit for eternity. You were on the verge of reaching for higher Heights and living at your best.

My Dear Sister, you live in my heart always and I will cherish every ounce of your precious being forever. Your boys will be fine...no worries, and know they have Gods Divine covering over them. May you rest in Glorious Peace...many hugs and kisses‼

Love your sister...Gladwina O’Mara

We’re so saddened to hear the news of our cousin Carol-Ann’s passing. Carol-Ann used to babysit us (my brothers and me) growing up. I remember she was always fun to be around. 2 years ago we were able to come back to Bermuda to visit and she made the best fried rice we’ve tasted. We’re glad we got the chance to see her then since we don’t get to see the family often. We wouldn’t have thought that would be the last time we would see her. We cherish the time spent together. Keeping the family and friends in prayer.

Love, Marsha O’Mara Henry and Lloyd Henry

Washington, DC, USA

My Bestie

Carol-Ann, my bestie, my sistah, my ace-girl. There were so many roles you played in my life and each one from the heart. How can I sum up in a few words what you meant to me, how much you were a part of me, my greatest source of inspiration. We walked through life’s journey together; sharing outfits, hairstyles, laughter, tears, victories and sometimes defeats. You always had that quiet calming smile, putting me at ease, often putting your hurt to the side.

One such journey was when we became mothers almost at the same time, and me for the first time. It went without saying, we were going to be Godmothers to each other’s children. As I stood there beside you, just as scared as you were, holding your hand as you brought Jahkai into this world. I remember thinking “. One thing for sure, we were 2 good-looking pregnant divas. My household never went hungry. Always looking out for Tyree and me, making sure we ate. You did the best fried chicken, which you knew is my favorite. We shared lots of laughter while you were in your favorite place: the kitchen, dancing with the pots and pans, creating the most intoxicating aromas.

While you and Theresa did the “scouting, fighting and holding” the May 24th spot, everyone else would show up dressed to the nines and take their seats for the day. Waiting for us would be all sorts of food, lovingly prepared by you. During my own illness the past two years, you stepped up to the role of Godma, making sure Tyree was okay, all the while taking on the role of “nurse” for me, ensuring that I was comfortable.

Carol-Ann, my bestie, my sistah, my ace-girl; you were the wind beneath my wings; my hero; my strength. Like a perfect flower, just beyond our reach; in the blink of an eye, you are gone too soon. Each memory of you will be forever etched in my heart.

Lovingly submitted by Terry

Godma

You were always there for me, from a baby with colic to now. My momma was new at the game and didn’t know what to do and you stepped right in. Thank you.

I am forever grateful for you taking me under your wing, treating me like your third son.Driving me and my God-brothers up and down from one end of the island to the other, taking us swimming, camping, and on trips. When it came to my picky eating, you would make me my own mac & cheese and hot-cross buns with no raisins.

I am so sorry you won’t be here to see your first Grandson; but don’t worry Godma, I will be here for Jahkai and will step in for him, like you did for my momma with me. I know you will smile down on us and whisper what to do in my ear. I’m not sure if I can comfort him like you would, but I am up for the challenge.

Godma - My heart breaks when I think I will never hear your laugh, your voice, even if you are shouting at me, or see your smile. Taste your good cooking especially the pizza, cookies and picnic sandwiches. You taught me a lot, and everything you have given me I will always keep inside. You were the reinforcement in my life.

I will miss you.

Love Tyree (Godson)

There are so many things I can say about Carol-Ann, but let me say this, she was a loving and giving person. She made time for family and friends. I remember the many times I called on her for her gifted knowledge of hairdressing and cooking. I recall one special holiday she phoned. “Aunt Sheila I’m going to bring you a plate of my dinner.” Before long she came rushing over with a plate filled with all the trimmings; enough food to last for two days. In our grief let us take a valuable lesson from Carol-Ann, one of real love and concern for others. So long Carol-Ann. Rest in peace.

Aunt Sheila’s Message for Carol- Ann

A Tribute to Our Special Niece and Cousin Carol-Ann

When Carol-Ann and Jahkai WhatsApp videoconference called us on Saturday April 24, little did we know that just few days later would be our last time talking with our dear cousin.We now know that this special time we shared was a gift from God and we will now treasure it forever. Carol-Ann and Jahkai insisted on the entire family gathering around the cell phone because they had good news to share – so off I went to get my mom (Carol-Ann’s) Aunt Freda, my son Matteo and husband Antonio… and once we were all together, they announced that my Godson Jahkai was going to be a father.Carol-Ann then wanted us to guess the sex of the baby… and when we did, she said, “How did you know?”We all had a good laugh.We also talked about how much Carol-Ann loved children and my mom remembered how much Carol-Ann loved dressing up baby girls and doing their hair when she was growing up.We had another good laugh.

Carol-Ann was so looking forward to welcoming her first grandson into the world! She was even more delighted to share with us that the baby boy was due on or around her birthday in September. She even said to us, “When this COVID stuff is all over we’ll be able to have a proper baby shower for them. ”One thing for sure, Carol-Ann had big plans for that shower… we all knew that she loved entertaining. She was the cousin I’d always consult with about what I should do as catering for any party that I was planning.I always wondered why Carol-Ann would respond to my WhatsApps with a voicenote instead of typing… now having them all saved on my phone is another thing I’ll treasure forever.

Carol-Ann was probably the first person to teach us the importance of having a personal brand.She used to always take such care and precision in everything that came out of her kitchen and if she wasn’t happy with anything that she had cooked or baked (especially if it was for sale) it was not leaving her kitchen. In fact, she was sure to redo the entire batch. She had a personal brand to uphold and a great entrepreneurial spirit which she took very seriously.We would love when she’d send out announcements that she had stuff for sale. It would have said something like this… “Morning family and friends, just a reminder that I’m still selling pies every weekend. Hot pies $8 and sweet pies $5, you can WhatsApp your order, thanks and be safe. Sweet pies are apple, apple crumble, lemon and coconut custard. Hot pies are beef, curry chicken, vegetable. Fish and mussel soon coming.” She always knew that we were guaranteed to buy something – and we always knew that we were in for a scrumptious greeze!

We’ll leave you with the words from one of Carol-Ann’s voicenotes when I told her how the Lord had provided lobsters for my mom's birthday party on March 29th when end of season and bad weather meant the restaurants didn’t have any.She said, “Amen to that! Yes he does Tamiko, God provides. So we always have to, you know, continue to keep Him and praise Him and worship Him and we know that all things will be well through Him.”

We’re going to miss you Carol-Ann, please give Grandma Ruthie a hug from us.

Love always,

Aunt Freda Black and cousins Tamiko, Antonio and Matteo Ramabuke

Lovingly Submitted by Aunt Jennifer

I first met Carol-Ann when we were at Fisher Junior College in 1985. We hit it off right away. She always liked a party and knew all the happenings in the Boston area. When we got back to Bermuda we continued our friendship. She became Godmother to my son Joshua and daughter Kevina. I remember vividly how we spent a Good Friday together at West Pembroke school. Her family and my family had an amazing time. She helped the children with their kites, and of course, we enjoyed her delicious fish cakes. We all know she was the best cook/baker/party planner etc. She taught me how to make my famous popcorn, because, one thing, she didn’t mind teaching you her chef skills.

I also became Godmother to her son Jerome and considered Jahkai an unofficial Godchild. I am going to miss her yearly birthday events - whether it be a sit down dinner, a games night, or a brunch - I never missed any accept last year when I was off island for medical reasons. I now listen to her voice notes continuously especially the most recent where she expressed that she was elated about becoming a grandmother. She said “Lora!!!! Guess what?” “I am going to be like you girl - a Nana, you know I’m going to spoil them. And don’t let it be a girl!” I replied “Carol-Ann, I know you will be broke because you are going to spoil her - and we kept on about the Convo but that will be the one that I will always keep in my heart especially since she said the baby was due on her birthday September 20.

I am going to miss my longtime friend - her infectious laughter, her bubbly spirit, her giving heart, her loyalty, her down to earth personality. She always gave her all, especially to her sons. They were her world. Now we as Godparents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, have to fill in the gap. Carol-Ann's legacy must live on. In her children, and in her grandchild. Although I still feel like it's a dream, and I'll wake up soon, reality won't let me stay there. Carol-Ann I'm missing you and you will always be in my heart. Much love.

Love Lora Davis

I have struggled, procrastinated in doing this tribute. I still cannot believe Carol-Ann (Maradee) for those who went way back with her is gone. I have known Maradee for more than 5 decades. Preschool, Mrs. Powell, we remember her always smelling like chocolate milk (that was our joke) in 1970. Kindergarten, Elliott Primary School (1971 through 1978) then Prospect Secondary School for Girls graduating 1982. Everyone knew if you messed with Carol-Ann you had to mess with me. Then we went to Fryeburg Academy in Maine for 2 years graduating in 1984 together. Boy what an adventure we had. I can recall on one occasion us raiding the boys’ dormitory. We had hung all their underwear on the school flagpole some wee hours in the morning. Needless to say, the Principle was not impressed. The image he had looking outside his window was frozen draws. You would have figured out by this time that we had enough of each other, but we followed each other to Boston to College in 1984, and Maradee attending Fisher Junior College for one year.

Maradee always went beyond protocol helping and cooking for everyone she encountered. Without a doubt this was her way of ministering her blessing.

At least twice a month Maradee and the rest of the Treasured Friends Crew gathered at one another’s house for fellowship enjoying ones company. Of course, Maradee organized the food always telling me to stay in my lane. Her favorite saying when I jacked up food was “Davis it’s sad with you”.

Maradee loved her children Jerome and Jahkai and would do everything and anything for them. She was so excited about becoming a Grandmother she could not wait to play her part. Jahkai instead of having just one now you have adopted 12 of us.

Never underestimate the value of your friendship. Maradee you will be sadly missed but never forgotten rest in peace my friend I Love you for life Davis.

Lovely submitted by Sharon Davis Carlington

My Great Friend Sister C.

Carol-Ann and I have been great friends for going on 40 years. In our younger years we were often together and rarely went a day without talking to each other. We affectionately referred to each other as Sister K and Sister C. Often when we spoke she would greet me in a loud voice and stretch her words saying, "Sister K what ya sayin girl." Carol-Ann often wanted me to come to her house, right now! I would say, "I have things to do and I have to get ready." She would ask, "What do you have to do?" Then she would say, "You can get ready here, hurry up!" Later in life when I had my 2 boys, she would say, "You all can get ready here." Then she would ask, "How long are you going to take to get here?"

We always had lots of fun and enjoyed each other's company. She was so excited to be a bridesmaid in my wedding and also delighted because it was the first wedding she had ever been in. With her excitement and expertise in organising events, she swung into action helping me with all the preparations. We are also Godmothers to each other’s children.

Over the years we have always kept in contact and shared and trusted our most private issues with each other. I talked to Carol-Ann a week before I received the devastating news that she had passed which has left me extremely saddened and shocked. I will miss her beautiful personality and smile, and our close friendship. Sister C, you are loved and always remembered.

From Sister K. (Karen L. Ming)

My Dear Friend Bailey

I know God ordained our footsteps into this friendship. This was no ordinary friendship. This was a God thing right from the beginning; a true divine assignment, strategically scheduled on Heaven’s calendar. You see, we are all given divine assignments and we must be discerning enough to know when they show up in our lives. It’s an instrument God uses everyday to impart the melodies of purpose, healing, impartiality, and unconditional love right into the hearts of other people. When the harmony is right, the assignment will not fail. Bailey our assignment as friends was successful! We knew that our friendship was not just unique but divine, oftentimes reminiscing and laughing about how we first met on disagreeable terms.

Lord have mercy! Who would have known the gems that were hidden and found! We even spoke about how our friendship outweighs our children’s infatuation for one another (sorry Jahkai and Desire) but it was definitely true. We quickly recognized that their friendship was the vehicle to get the connection going in the first place! God’s ways are truly not our ways! Trusting this unfamiliar process has sure enough been worth it! Bailey, you were such an amazing friend to me who had a heart of pure gold! You were definitely a giant who wore a velvet glove on an iron fist. You were forceful but had a very tender and gentle spirit. You were selfless, generous, and very genuine. I was privileged to observe this side of you. Friendships are supposed to be reciprocal right? You pour into me and I poured into you and boy did you do some pouring Bailey!

You would always encourage me to stand strong and be bold, not allowing anyone or anything to deflate me. Yup, you definitely tried to toughen me up! Our friendship was very fruitful and very empowering, which reminds me of a familiar and very sobering lesson in this life: never judge a book by its cover! When we do, we forfeit the value inside of books that are too often overlooked within ‘Life’s Library’. We are all on the shelf in that Library and Bailey, I’m so glad that we got the opportunity to exchange Books that faithful day. I purposed in my heart that I was going to treasure this book I selected from the shelf. In hindsight, I am so grateful I did not dismiss the opportunity to get to know you as a resilient and strong woman. Timing is everything and had we not been sensitive to embrace the assignment of our friendship, we would have missed out on a divine setup from Heaven!

No way was our friendship in vain: praying and encouraging one another became our norm. We would drive and pray, be at work and pray, be on the phone and pray. Touching and agreeing gave us both a sense of guidance to our victories! You were ultimately a force to be reckoned with. I know Heaven has a pen and God was very deliberate in writing your destiny. I took studious notes on every chapter, sentence and even the punctuation that He would allow me to interpret in your book. It was purposeful and powerful!! What an impactful force you really were in my life. I’ll never forget our most hilarious moments laughing our hearts out and then during those tough times where we’d shed a tear unjudged and unapologetically.

I know you had an unwavering faith in God and knew His place in your life. I know you desired to make your calling and election sure in Him as countless times we spoke about our soul salvation. I leave the end of your story peacefully in His hands. Bailey, now that the last chapter of your book is closed, I declare that your children and future generations will reap ALL the rewards of your hard labour that is written in the pages of your life. As they finger through, I declare that they will discover your story to be a bestseller deep within their hearts; embracing all your strengths, setbacks, and comebacks and know that their mother and grandmother was a true warrior at the heart who selflessly paid her price.

I declare that they will hear stories of victory and fortitude and draw strength from you. I declare that your Legacy will stand; nobody can destroy it and no devil can shake it! I choose to believe that our friendship was God-ordained, your living was not in vain, your dying has much to gain and the mission is now accomplished!

Lovingly submitted by Danelle Simmons

My Beloved Friend from Vesey Street Days

WE JOURNEYED THROUGH NURSERY SCHOOLS, PEETS, ELEMENTARY SCHOOL, ELLIOTT AND HIGH SCHOOL, PROSPECT SECONDARY HIGH SCHOOL FOR GIRLS.

I AM LOST FOR WORDS,

C IS FOR CARING,

A IS FOR AWESOME,

R IS FOR REAL PEOPLE,

O IS FOR OUTSTANDING,

L IS FOR LOVING

A IS FOR AHH

A IS FOR ALWAYS LOVE YOU

N IS FOR NEVER EVER WILL FORGET YOU

REST IN PEACE LOVE YOU ADRIENNE COBBS

Carol-Ann, where do I start, in 1985 we met in Fryeburg Academy. Strangely, each of us had a connection with the other. While you and I did not know each other soon that would change. From that point on we became friends. I remember you coming to my room often, to hang with my roommate. As the two of you connected, and you acting some way towards me, I had to remind you that, you are from Bermuda, and unless you plan on bring her back to live there, you better treat me better. From that point on, we got along without any issues. Years later, Treasure Friends was formed and now we are back together again, as God intended. We are really good together especially when in the kitchen. Sadly we will not be able to start our own restaurant business. God’s funny, he ALWAYS has the last say.....it’s all good....

We, Shawn, Lanir and I Love U Always....Rest In Peace My Friend, until we meet again.

ALANA SMITH

All of my memories of my dear cousin Carol-Ann are very fond. I remember every Christmas we’d gather as a family and she would be dressed as Santa Claus and would be jolly and happy as she handed out gifts to all of the younger children of the family. I looked forward to those times. She also would watch myself and my siblings before and after school and during the summer when our parents were away. She was always so loving, caring, kind and welcoming. Over the years we lost touch and would only interact here and there on Facebook, but she’d never changed. I will miss her very much.

Brandon Patrick O'Mara

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

There are so many things I can say about Carol-Ann, but let me say this, she was a loving and giving person. She made time for family and friends. I remember the many times I called on her for her gifted knowledge of hairdressing and cooking. I recall one special holiday she phoned. “Aunt Sheila, I’m going to bring you a plate of my dinner.” Before long she came rushing over with a plate filled with all the trimmings; enough food to last for two days. In our grief let us take a valuable lesson from Carol-Ann, one of real love and concern for others. So long Carol-Ann. Rest in peace.

Love from Aunt Sheila Ming

St. David's, Bermuda

The first time I remember meeting Carol-Ann was when her son Jerome was a baby. Sharon and I visited her home on Vesey Street. She impressed on me her kindness and generosity.

Understanding the long relationship, from childhood, she and Sharon had automatically made her my friend also. Over the many years since, I did not get to see her that often but when I did, she was my friend.

The past few years I got to see Carol-Ann more often as she had moved to St David’s. Every time we saw each other it was a happy greeting. However, over the past year during the Pandemic our friendship grew much stronger as she was a part of the small social group that was formed called Treasured Friends. This small group was developed for support and camaraderie for each other during the difficult times over the past year. We all had multiple daily contacts over social media and occasionally a social gathering amongst ourselves at one of the group’s residences. During this time, my friendship with Carol Ann became incredibly special as with all the group.

I looked forward to her daily greeting, sometimes a song and especially a birthday wish song on my special day. I also looked forward to her great cooking and desserts, they were so good. I occasionally put in a special request that she always obliged. But most of all I enjoyed the personal get-togethers and conversations. All of this I will greatly miss! A great friend, a great cook, a great mother and most of all, a great person!

Gone to soon but will never be forgotten!

I will remember you for life, missing you already!

Lovingly submitted by,

Scott Carol-Ann’s AKA Scotty

Carol-Ann A True Friend to the End

Carol-Ann and I attended Prospect Secondary School for Girls together. On our first day of high school, all new students had to assemble in the hallway to search for their names which had been placed on a bulletin board there. After everyone had found their names and had already gone to their form-rooms, Carol-Ann and I were the only two people left searching for our names, as there were so many girls lining up doing the same thing earlier. We both stood there and smiled at one another, as Carol-Ann had a very infectious smile that everyone was drawn to.

We then introduced ourselves and promised to look out for one another throughout the day. True to her word, Carol-Ann stuck to her promise. There she was standing outside my form-room every recess and lunch hour with a grin on her face and her thumb in her mouth. From then on, we became closer and closer as friends.

During the summer break, Carol-Ann found her way to my house and asked my mother if I could help her bake cookies; this was her way of getting me out of the house. She did my hair, she asked her Grandmother to make my graduation dress, she also wanted me to go away with her to Fryeburg Academy after graduating from high school.

Later, after the birth of my son, Carol-Ann was so excited that before I asked her to be his Godmother she already had said “yes” without hesitation, and he became Carol-Ann's first Godchild.

Years later, when I told her that I was getting married, I wanted her to be one of my bridesmaids. Carol-Ann was so upset as she was having surgery on her leg that same year. But nothing was going to keep her from attending, as she had asked someone to pick out her outfit and take her to my wedding, even if it meant pushing her in a wheelchair. What a surprise when I walked out of the church to see and hear her yelling… congratulations Ro!!!

Just recently I had thrown a surprise birthday party for my husband and, of course, Carol-Ann was the go-to person for the food. Some of the food items that I decided to have on the dinner menu, Carol-Ann told me “No”, she was unable to do it, later to find out that she had made it everything and more that I had requested. This was not only a surprise to my husband but for me too.We all saw the enjoyment on Carol-Ann’s face as she made sure everything was in perfect order for that evening.

I am forever grateful to Carol-Ann and for all that she had done for me throughout those difficult and happy times in my life… CAROL-ANN, MY TRUE TREASURED FRIEND TO THE END…MISSING YOU…REST IN PEACE!

Treasured Friend - Rhonell (Rho Rho) Outerbridge

God Made You You-nique!

We Studied and Sang in Boarding School

and later on you became a Treasured Friend (East)

The True home of a Christian is in the Heavenly realm with Christ 2 Corinthians 5:8.

Good bye my dear Friend, will miss you….

Crystal

Sandysgirl

MY TREASURED FRIEND – CAROL-ANN

This tribute is dedicated to a strong sister Carol-Ann whom I am thankful to have met and known. Even though for a short period of time; to me it seemed as if I’ve known her all my life.

I remembered on few occasions, Carol-Ann had invited me, my wife, Cindy, as well as the Treasured Friends to one of her Birthday Bashes at her house about four years back. I must say when I arrived at Carol-Ann’s Birthday party I was truly impressed with the ambience.

What was really awesome to me was that Carol-Ann had cooked all the food and made the desserts too. The food was off-the-chain that I had to go back for seconds. I realized that that was Carol-Ann’s passion and I would be the first to say that she was very good at her craft of cooking.I could definitely say that she could have given some of these top restaurants out there a run for their money. If there was a bet on a popular restaurant chef verses Carol-Ann, I would have put my bet on Carol-Ann because I knew she was excellent at what she did and would have delivered big time.

I will miss her smile and her pleasant personality as she always went over and above to help others and did it with a loving and open heart.

The last and final moments with Carol-Ann, that I will never forget and truly be ever so grateful, was when she contributed to my surprise Birthday Party on March 16th, 2021, by cooking a few delicious dishes including some great desserts. Again, I am honored that she went out of her way to do something special for me during my special Birthday amongst the Treasured Friends.

In closing, Carol-Ann, you will truly be missed by all; you fought a good fight right to the end. You have touched so many lives in your very special way.

Even now as it is hard for me to believe that you have departed this life, your legacy will truly live on and you will always be remembered. Until we meet again my friend, may you rest in peace.

Kyle Outerbridge - Treasured Friend

Bailey

For 17 years as the cook, Carol-Ann was affectionately known as ‘Bailey’ by her Happy Valley Child Care Center family, and she was the “meat” of the team; for her meals prepared us for the start of everyday. Her hearty meals were always seasoned in love, and rarely disappointed the children and staff.

Bailey was detail-oriented, and presented her meals with such precision. She worked wholeheartedly to meet the demands of dietary needs for all children. She took pride in serving them, and enjoyed when the children’s plates returned clean. Some of her best meals the children enjoyed included: butternut squash soup, curried chicken and rice, chicken fried rice, goulash, codfish and potatoes, haystacks, brownies and pizza Fridays. The teachers enjoyed her surprised treats from time-to-time such as, popcorn, beef and chicken pies. If called upon by parents Bailey would also honor their requests to make pies, rolls, or offer Johnny bread from the morning snack.

Working with Bailey at HVCCC was much more than the heavenly goodness that escaped her kitchen. She was a valuable member of the team, who participated in all team events and professional development opportunities. Ms. Bailey ran late for work from time-to-time, but on those odd occasions when she did, it was a mean dash to the kitchen. Staff would shake their head, giggle and say, “There she goes late again.” Teacher Wilson recalls a time Bailey requested her help to get up from one of the kid’s low chairs that she knew she had no business sitting on. Wilson tried her best, tugging on Bailey’s arms, but rather than rising to her feet, Bailey slid to the floor landing on her butt. The two roared in laughter at the sight of Bailey wiggling on the floor trying to get up before being caught in a compromising position.

It must be known that Bailey was the best cook for the children. Past and present parents have often remarked that their at-home meals do not compare to that of Bailey’s. Their picky eaters have demanded for their parents to learn how to make their food taste like Bailey’s. An old parent shared of a time, when she was tasked to make the lemonade for a PTA event. When Bailey sampled the lemonade and questioned its maker, the parent cringed; for Bailey’s standards was high, and the parent was leery if her drink would measure up. When Bailey approved that the dinner drink was perfect, the both of them made a toast to a wonderful evening ahead.

Bailey was often asked to prepare certain foods for our Department’s (DCFS) special events, or for her colleagues, because no one else could compare to the meals she could prepare. In fact, staff brought in the ingredients, dumped them on to her countertops, in an attempt to force her hand into the undercover job. She would remind them that, “she works for the children, not the staff.” But in true Bailey fashion, she would give in, and honor their requests of hot-cross buns, beef and chicken pies, gingerbread, specialized pizza toppings on pizza Fridays and adding meat for their serving to a meatless meal.

When you entered the kitchen, Bailey always had the music playing. Most often gospel music which she sung from her heart while preparing meals. Other occasions Bailey would join in on class music and movement times trying her best to keep up with the actions of children and staff. She loved music!

The HVCCC staff are a close knit team. Together we’ve had our share of dark moments, but together, we’ve risen like the sun and are moving beyond. Carol-Ann’s sudden death has ripped us all to the core; and it’s still painful. We will miss our conversations, and her soft smile, but we will never forget how Bailey touched our souls through her meals and gentle spirit.

Lovingly submitted by the Happy Valley Child Care Center Staff.

This is an occasion for celebration for the time God blessed us with Carol-Ann. She was a wonderful lady and was an honest deceit woman whom we will see again.

We know when Christ comes he comes to take us back to the place he prepared for us, and so therefore, we celebrate Carol-Ann's life and give thanks for her. Thank God for her life that touched so many lives.

Lovingly submitted by uncle Lou Thomas, U.S A.

C - Capable, Cool, Compassion-ate

A- Angel, Awesome, Amazing

R - Real, Respectful, Radiant

O - One-of-a-kind

L - Loving

A - Attractive

N - Nice, Neat

N - Neighborly

Carol-Ann - Rest Peacefully my Angel!!!!

My daughter and I will hold you close in our Hearts!!!

Until we meet again

Love your dear friend Beverly-Ann Evans

Aunt Carol-Ann, wow I don't know where to start. The day I received the phone call it felt like my whole world came to a halt. I still can't believe it, it feels like a nightmare and ever since I`ve been waiting for someone to wake me out of it. This pain is so unreal. Indescribable. I have so many unanswered questions, why you? Why now? We had so many plans and looked forward to sharing so many moments together. You were everything to me, and our bond was like no other. You were like my second mother and I was like the daughter you never had, and I will forever cherish that. You were there for me through thick and thin, whether I was right or wrong, and never failed to give me advice to get me back on track. Your heart was pure gold, full of love, kindness and generosity. I won't ever forget that infectious smile and bright energy that lit up every room you walked into.

You were such a great mother and I knew without a doubt you would be the best grandmother too. I'll forever remember our moments in the kitchen cooking and chatting together, where you were eager to teach me all your recipes. All the times where I would be there to assist you with your hair, or going for drives with you. The simple things. Every moment counted, and I'm glad we took that time out to just be together. Who would've thought that just a few weeks ago before you got sick, that would be our last dinner together and the last time I spent with you? I remember the conversation like it was yesterday, as we sat and talked about the baby, and how excited you were to be his ‘’Nana Lovie’’, and spoil him as you would always say. He most definitely was your pride and joy, and it breaks my heart to know that you`ll never get to see him, hold him, and play the role you always doted about, being a grandmother. I’ll always remember those last words you told me the day before you passed away, you said, ”I love you guys”, and I want you to know that we love you too unconditionally. You would always grin and tell me, “you love your dumpa”, and you were always right about that. One thing, I promise to always do is to look out for him, guide him and continue to love him, and we will forever carry your legacy on with baby K. I feel honored and privileged to have been your daughter. I love you forever and always.

Love,

Desire

Dear mamma, it’s me your oldest son. I know you’re listening out for me like you always have. So hear me out when I say this is a pain I’m not prepared to accept easily. So many stones left unturned. I wanted you to witness me become everything you had dreamed of. Some part of me honestly thought I’d hear your sweet voice forever, but sometimes forever comes sooner then we can expect.

You taught me never let anyone walk over my brother and I, and now that you have moved on I promise here and now I’ll continue to protect us both. As heartbroken as I am, I understand by the almighty design there is a plan for each of us. You came into this world and touched countless others through block parties, cookouts and no one can forget beaching it down Clearwater with Carol-Ann. Wherever you went you brought “the energy” whether it was to your daily duties at work or even bitter sweet moments when you would visit your brother in the hospital. You were known for giving us that smile.

Growing up I remember you wanted to give us a sister so bad, your own little daughter. But God must’ve known we all could only handle one Carol-Ann in our lives because that’s how much of a driving force you were.

You did your best to raise two men mostly on your own, you would give your last to make sure I was ok. It was that kind of selflessness that has taught me what real love is.

From this moment I plan to live the life you intended me too, be the man you wanted, the brother Jahkai needs and the uncle my nephew deserves. This isn’t just a letter to you momma. This is a promise to myself. To be everything you wanted to see and more. Keep watching from above. Your oldest will make you proud. Your legacy will carry on through our smiles.

Love you dearly mamma - Jerome.